Saturday, August 9, 2025

How to Lose a Best Friend by Jordan K Casomar. - OPTIONAL

How to Lose a Best Friend by Jordan K Casomar. 324 pages. MTV Entertainment Books, 2024. $20

Language: R (317 swears, 64 ‘f'); Mature Content: R (kissing, off page sex, sex dreams mentioned, sexual references, underage drinking, racial slurs, underage vaping, references to genitals); Violence: PG (fighting, bullying)

BUYING ADVISORY: HS - OPTIONAL

APPEALS TO: SOME

16yo Zeke and 15yo Imogen have been best friends since they were children. Everyone expects them to get together as soon as Imogen turns 16 and is allowed to date. While Imogen deeply cares for Zeke and treasures their friendship, she’s recently found herself developing feelings for a new student, Trevor. At her birthday party, in front of all their friends, Zeke unexpectedly announces his feelings for her and declares his intentions—putting Imogen on the spot. When she rejects him, the backlash from their peers unfairly falls on her. Imogen is left hurt and confused, especially by the realization that her best friend seems more focused on what he wants than on how she feels. As Zeke struggles with the rejection, he begins taking extreme measures to try to sabotage Imogen’s relationship with Trevor, hoping to make her choose him instead.

This story, told in dual perspectives, is about a boy who mistakenly believes that liking a girl means she’s obligated to like him back—that his time and attention entitle him to something in return. Zeke is a good kid: he works hard at school and baseball, and he supports his family while his dad undergoes cancer treatment. But in chasing the one relationship he believes he deserves, he nearly ruins all the others that matter most. Fortunately, Imogen chooses to forgive him and encourages their friends to do the same. I appreciated the story’s message about the value of healthy relationships built on mutual respect and understanding—an important lesson for teens. What I didn’t enjoy, however, was the excessive and distracting use of foul language. Imogen is black, Zeke is black, Manny and Cara are Puerto Rican American

Reviewer: A. Snow, Librarian

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